Music at Your Wedding

Music at Your Wedding – Why It’s Important, When to Use It and Who to Choose

When you think about the most memorable weddings, chances are you remember the setting, the speeches… and the soundtrack. Music has a way of capturing emotion, setting the mood, and giving each part of your wedding day its own atmosphere.

At Tyn Dwr Hall, we’ve seen how the right music can elevate a moment—whether it’s the soft piano during an emotional ceremony, or a terrace set that has guests dancing before dinner. So if you’re wondering how best to use music throughout your day, here’s our guide to getting it just right.

Arrival Hall – Set the Scene

Your day begins long before the ceremony. As guests arrive, the right music can set the tone without taking centre stage.

Think of this as the overture to your wedding—gentle, welcoming background music that fills the Hall and makes guests feel instantly at ease. Whether it’s a playlist of favourite instrumentals or live music from a harpist or guitarist, it’s a chance to start as you mean to go on: stylish, thoughtful, and full of feeling.

Ceremony – Three Key Songs That Matter Most

This is one of the most emotional parts of your wedding day, and music plays a huge role in that. You’ll typically need three pieces of music:

1. Your walk down the aisle – Whether you choose something traditional, instrumental, or completely personal, this is the moment that sets the entire tone of the ceremony.

2. The signing of the register – This can take a few minutes, so choose something gentle and meaningful that keeps the mood relaxed.

3. Your exit as a married couple – This is your moment to celebrate. Think joyful, upbeat, and crowd-pleasing—something to bring a smile to everyone’s face.

You can opt for live music or a carefully curated Spotify playlist—either works beautifully. We’ve seen tears shed over the soaring notes of a harpist, the richness of a male voice choir, and even a carefully chosen piece from a couple’s favourite film. The most important thing is that it reflects you.

Drinks Reception – Create a Buzz on the Terrace

This is where the party starts. While you’re off having photographs taken or mingling with guests, music can really bring this part of the day to life.
Live music on the terrace always goes down well. From string quartets and acoustic duos to chilled DJ sets, we’ve seen couples get really creative here—and it always helps keep the energy high.
If you’re working with a musician or DJ later in the evening, many will offer an additional set during your reception too. It’s a lovely way to tie the whole day together musically.

Wedding Breakfast – Subtle & Stylish

During the wedding breakfast, background music is all you need. Something soft and melodic works beautifully, allowing guests to chat, enjoy the food and soak up the atmosphere.
You could choose instrumental covers of your favourite songs, film soundtracks, or jazz and soul classics. Some couples opt to create their own playlists, while others leave it to the professionals. Either way, the music should complement the moment—never distract from it.

Evening Party – Go All Out

If the daytime soundtrack builds the emotion, this is where you turn it up. Your evening party is your time to celebrate, and choosing the right music here makes all the difference.

Live bands bring incredible energy and can get everyone on their feet, while DJs offer versatility and crowd-pleasing mixes. Many couples choose both—a band to kick things off, followed by a DJ to keep the dance floor going until the very last song.

First dances, dance-offs, singalongs and sparkler send-offs—this is where the night really comes to life.

Final Thoughts: Choose What Feels Right for You

Music has a way of turning a moment into a memory. It doesn’t have to be loud or elaborate—it just needs to be you. Whether you want soft strings, soulful singers or a full-on floorfiller, we’ll help you make it work.

Need supplier suggestions? We’ve worked with some brilliant live performers, DJs and ensembles, and we’d be happy to point you in the right direction.

Let the music play—your wedding day deserves a soundtrack as special as your love story.

TD team xx